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- December 10, 2015 at 8:49 am
Let’s start out by saying I don’t mean to ramble on but here’s my story.A couple years ago I first saw it. A large bruise/birthmark looking thing on the back of my neck. I asked my gf if she ever noticed it. She assured me i always had it. We had been together 5 years at that time. I asked my ex wife if she ever saw it. She said she didn’t know what I was talking about. I asked my mother. She said I was born with a birthmark. I thought how strange I could go 40 years and never know. So I just stopped worrying.
I’ve had battles with my health. In 2013 I started having problems breathing. I’ve had asthma my whole life but I had never had serious issues like this. I had a cough so severe that it would make me faint. Off to the Dr I go. Get referrals to cardiologist and pulmonologist. Heart was fine. Lung Dr thinks I have copd. Starts me on a full prescription regime. I have now been on prednisone among many other drugs for 2 years. However in the duration my health was so bad it cost me my job and career.
Now unemployed I decided to take time off to recover and be a daddy again. My youngest daughter was born in 2014. I was feeling more like myself. I decided it’s time to get back to work. Ok in all fairness the local court also demanded I work on my growing child support from my first 2 kids.. But that’s a whole other story
I started applying and interviewing but just as soon as I did, I started to feel just off somehow. I felt sick but not in a cold or flu way, just not well. At first it started mildly. Eventually I started getting a persistent headache that never goes away completely. It’s at the base of my skull on the left side (right above my skin lesion). Then my legs started feeling heavy. Like I was pulling a few hundred extra pounds. Next came burning numbness and tingling in my feet. So bad that I’m even writing this at 3 am cause sleep is impossible.
In October 2015, while battling my now mystery illness I had the chance to interview for a job back “home” in Phoenix az. My parents paid for my trip home. When I arrived I actually felt good. Almost no symptoms of anything except one scary thing. The skin lesion had started itching a few weeks prior. After not looking at it for years I noticed changes. It had grown “eyes”. 2 spots that had lost color. On a visit to my parents home I again asked my mother about my birthmark. She again told me I was born with it. However upon questioning her my heart sank. I was born with a “stork bite”. My children all had it. It’s a strawberry colored mark at the base of the scalp. It’s common and it fades quickly. It’s also not where my lesion is located. I’m now convinced I have melanoma. I’ve done my research. I know what I’m looking at.
Upon my return home, again I quickly started with my other symptoms. Now add in extreme fatigue. Getting out of bed is a chore. The headache and ringing in my ears is more than I can tolerate. Off to the Dr I go. I get a referral to an ear nose and throat Dr. I didn’t mention my skin lesion (yet) cause I sat in disbelief. Years of treatment for copd/asthma means I had dozens of Dr visits. Every one of those visits involved in a Dr using a stethoscope on me. I had a Dr inches away from my cancer and no one saw it. Oh I’ll add it’s amoeba shaped almost 2 inches long! Now this time after describing my headache again I pulled down my shirt and said ” do you think this thing could explain anything ” now I get a referral to the dermatologist..
Stay with me folks, I’m getting there.
I chose fox chase cancer center for my treatment. Partly cause they accept the Medicade I’m on and partly cause they have a good reputation. After the month wait to get in I met with my Dr. Upon quick examination he told me he thinks I have a pigmented basal cell carcinoma. Tells me he wants to do a shave biopsy to confirm. I’m so confused. He didn’t use a dermascope. He didn’t even get close. He just ran his finger across it. I asked him how he could tell the difference between what I have and for instance a simple melanoma in situ. He looked at me. Paused. Gave me a look I could only assume meant “stop reading things on the internet”. He corrected the way I said in situ. Told me he could tell it’s basal cell by the feel. Now I felt stupid. My hours on you tube and hours on Google are no match for his 12 years of training. I felt dumb. I stopped asking questions. He assured me he was confident it couldn’t be melanoma. Now only in my head I’m saying your wrong. There’s no waxy or pearlescent feature. there’s no raised or rolled border. The color is wrong. It’s in a place you’d expect melanoma as well. However he proceeded with the shave biopsy. Only taking a small portion (maybe 30% of the surface).
Now I’m confused. I’m sick. I have no answers. Basal cell carcinoma isn’t serious. Ok cancer is always serious but come on, it’s not going to explain my symptoms. I’m relieved though. I figure perhaps my headache/fatigue/pain is something related to my copd meds. Perhaps I’m anemic. I don’t know. Now at this point my car broke down. Being unemployed for 2 years has taken its toll. I have nothing. Not a penny to my name. My gf supports me and our daughter on a very meager salary. I can’t get to my dr. Again I’m playing Dr Google and thinking I’m either anemic or have diabetes. All I knew was it can’t be cancer. Right?
A week after my Dr visit I get the call. I’m working on my car at the time and miss the call. He actually left his cell phone number and said to call any time. That’s never good. When I finally spoke to him he told me it is confirmed melanoma. He said he’s confident it’s only stage 1. That it only shows at .77mm deep. Yeah, I’m thinking, it’s only .77mm deep cause that’s all he shaved off! How can the genius that was confident it wasn’t melanoma be so sure it’s stage 1 (no a or b stated)? Mind you, I’ve had this tumor growing now for over 5 years. He then set me up for a consult with a surgical oncologist.
Finally folks here’s the questions
1. Is it concerning that an alleged cancer specialist dermatologist performed a shave biopsy on only a small portion of a malignant melanoma?
2. Will this give my surgeon enough information to know if a sentinel node biopsy is called for
3. What are the chances my headache/fatigue/tenitis/peripheral neuropathy are related to my cancer?
4. Which Dr do I spill my guts to about all my problems? My primary? The surgeon? Who’s most likely to help?
Ok that’s it. If your read this far into my story you deserve a medal 🙂 thank you.
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- December 10, 2015 at 4:50 pm
Hi… I was diagnosed this year with stage III. Regarding question #4; I feel my best resource at the time was my surgical oncologist… make sure you find one that has significant experience with melanoma. I found an amazing doctor at Moffitt in Tampa (Dr. Sondak). I hear some of the best are at MD Anderson, Sloan Kettering and Moffitt.
Regarding #1 sounds normal.
Regarding #2,3 wish I knew more to help you out here. But, I'm confident that a surgical oncologist focused on melonoma will lead you in the right direction.
Good Luck
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- December 10, 2015 at 4:50 pm
Hi… I was diagnosed this year with stage III. Regarding question #4; I feel my best resource at the time was my surgical oncologist… make sure you find one that has significant experience with melanoma. I found an amazing doctor at Moffitt in Tampa (Dr. Sondak). I hear some of the best are at MD Anderson, Sloan Kettering and Moffitt.
Regarding #1 sounds normal.
Regarding #2,3 wish I knew more to help you out here. But, I'm confident that a surgical oncologist focused on melonoma will lead you in the right direction.
Good Luck
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- December 10, 2015 at 4:50 pm
Hi… I was diagnosed this year with stage III. Regarding question #4; I feel my best resource at the time was my surgical oncologist… make sure you find one that has significant experience with melanoma. I found an amazing doctor at Moffitt in Tampa (Dr. Sondak). I hear some of the best are at MD Anderson, Sloan Kettering and Moffitt.
Regarding #1 sounds normal.
Regarding #2,3 wish I knew more to help you out here. But, I'm confident that a surgical oncologist focused on melonoma will lead you in the right direction.
Good Luck
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- December 10, 2015 at 6:02 pm
I'll give it my best shot!
#1 Concerning- yes. Predictable – also yes. So often melanoma doesn't present as "typical". Of course it would have been better for you to have a punch biopsy, as that would have provided a better determination of the depth.
#2 Someone else may have to correct me here, but I *think* that your pathology report would tell you if the sample had clear margins at the vertical depth or not. If the true depth is .77mm, and there is no mitosis, protocol would not call for a SLNB. Did you get a copy of the pathology report, and was it read by a dermapathologist?
#3 Wish I could answer this question for you. My husband (multiple melanoma primaries, all Stage 1) has been suffering for six months with cough/headache/fatigue. Primary and ENT can't find anything (and primary seems to want to dismiss the two lung nodules). Yes, this is worrisome to patients because in seeking a diagnosis our minds always travel to the worst case scenario. Chances are, this is not related to your melanoma.
#4 Typically, for a Stage 1 melanoma, having everything done by a surgical oncologist is fine. Once you get into higher stages (if the SNLB came back positive) you need to be seen by a melanoma specialist. Not someone that does "quite a few of these surgeries", but someone who deals with this every single day as their primary focus. Without seeing your full pathology report, I'm not sure what direction would be best.
There are a lot more folks on this board with a lot more knowledge than I have. I was drawn to your story because of the similarities with my husband (primaries were all on his head, BTW). I know you will get a lot of help here — just make sure that you are 100% comfortable with the direction you decide to go. Personally, I would probably push for an SNLB, but that's just my paranoia.
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- December 10, 2015 at 6:02 pm
I'll give it my best shot!
#1 Concerning- yes. Predictable – also yes. So often melanoma doesn't present as "typical". Of course it would have been better for you to have a punch biopsy, as that would have provided a better determination of the depth.
#2 Someone else may have to correct me here, but I *think* that your pathology report would tell you if the sample had clear margins at the vertical depth or not. If the true depth is .77mm, and there is no mitosis, protocol would not call for a SLNB. Did you get a copy of the pathology report, and was it read by a dermapathologist?
#3 Wish I could answer this question for you. My husband (multiple melanoma primaries, all Stage 1) has been suffering for six months with cough/headache/fatigue. Primary and ENT can't find anything (and primary seems to want to dismiss the two lung nodules). Yes, this is worrisome to patients because in seeking a diagnosis our minds always travel to the worst case scenario. Chances are, this is not related to your melanoma.
#4 Typically, for a Stage 1 melanoma, having everything done by a surgical oncologist is fine. Once you get into higher stages (if the SNLB came back positive) you need to be seen by a melanoma specialist. Not someone that does "quite a few of these surgeries", but someone who deals with this every single day as their primary focus. Without seeing your full pathology report, I'm not sure what direction would be best.
There are a lot more folks on this board with a lot more knowledge than I have. I was drawn to your story because of the similarities with my husband (primaries were all on his head, BTW). I know you will get a lot of help here — just make sure that you are 100% comfortable with the direction you decide to go. Personally, I would probably push for an SNLB, but that's just my paranoia.
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- December 10, 2015 at 6:02 pm
I'll give it my best shot!
#1 Concerning- yes. Predictable – also yes. So often melanoma doesn't present as "typical". Of course it would have been better for you to have a punch biopsy, as that would have provided a better determination of the depth.
#2 Someone else may have to correct me here, but I *think* that your pathology report would tell you if the sample had clear margins at the vertical depth or not. If the true depth is .77mm, and there is no mitosis, protocol would not call for a SLNB. Did you get a copy of the pathology report, and was it read by a dermapathologist?
#3 Wish I could answer this question for you. My husband (multiple melanoma primaries, all Stage 1) has been suffering for six months with cough/headache/fatigue. Primary and ENT can't find anything (and primary seems to want to dismiss the two lung nodules). Yes, this is worrisome to patients because in seeking a diagnosis our minds always travel to the worst case scenario. Chances are, this is not related to your melanoma.
#4 Typically, for a Stage 1 melanoma, having everything done by a surgical oncologist is fine. Once you get into higher stages (if the SNLB came back positive) you need to be seen by a melanoma specialist. Not someone that does "quite a few of these surgeries", but someone who deals with this every single day as their primary focus. Without seeing your full pathology report, I'm not sure what direction would be best.
There are a lot more folks on this board with a lot more knowledge than I have. I was drawn to your story because of the similarities with my husband (primaries were all on his head, BTW). I know you will get a lot of help here — just make sure that you are 100% comfortable with the direction you decide to go. Personally, I would probably push for an SNLB, but that's just my paranoia.
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- December 10, 2015 at 7:19 pm
Thank you for responding. My dermatologist was not clear about the details of my pathology report. Upon questioning he made vague references to signs of regression but never mentioned things like vertical growth, ulceration or mitonic rate. I have not seen it yet. My only issue really is that in the site of the biopsy you can clearly see tumor under the shave. That and the fact that he only sampled a fraction of the lesion tells me that at the least he’s careless in guessing the stage. Perhaps he’s trying to give me hope? Honestly regardless of my stage I won’t give up hope so there’s no news I’m not ok hearing. He did in passing also mention that there MAY be a sentinel node biopsy and ct scan performed. My surgical oncologist is a melanoma specialist. I chose fox chase cancer center, part of the university of Pennsylvania for my treatment because of their reputation. although I’m less than impressed with my dermatologist so far I’m hoping the rest of my treatment goes well. With my insurance this is really my best option. -
- December 10, 2015 at 7:19 pm
Thank you for responding. My dermatologist was not clear about the details of my pathology report. Upon questioning he made vague references to signs of regression but never mentioned things like vertical growth, ulceration or mitonic rate. I have not seen it yet. My only issue really is that in the site of the biopsy you can clearly see tumor under the shave. That and the fact that he only sampled a fraction of the lesion tells me that at the least he’s careless in guessing the stage. Perhaps he’s trying to give me hope? Honestly regardless of my stage I won’t give up hope so there’s no news I’m not ok hearing. He did in passing also mention that there MAY be a sentinel node biopsy and ct scan performed. My surgical oncologist is a melanoma specialist. I chose fox chase cancer center, part of the university of Pennsylvania for my treatment because of their reputation. although I’m less than impressed with my dermatologist so far I’m hoping the rest of my treatment goes well. With my insurance this is really my best option. -
- December 10, 2015 at 7:19 pm
Thank you for responding. My dermatologist was not clear about the details of my pathology report. Upon questioning he made vague references to signs of regression but never mentioned things like vertical growth, ulceration or mitonic rate. I have not seen it yet. My only issue really is that in the site of the biopsy you can clearly see tumor under the shave. That and the fact that he only sampled a fraction of the lesion tells me that at the least he’s careless in guessing the stage. Perhaps he’s trying to give me hope? Honestly regardless of my stage I won’t give up hope so there’s no news I’m not ok hearing. He did in passing also mention that there MAY be a sentinel node biopsy and ct scan performed. My surgical oncologist is a melanoma specialist. I chose fox chase cancer center, part of the university of Pennsylvania for my treatment because of their reputation. although I’m less than impressed with my dermatologist so far I’m hoping the rest of my treatment goes well. With my insurance this is really my best option. -
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:54 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:54 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:54 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:57 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:57 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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- December 15, 2015 at 10:57 pm
I can totally sympathize with your story. In 1999 I went in to have a mole removed off of my leg that was getting big and ugly and I didn't even think that it might be melanoma. He did a punch biopsy and put in a couple stitches and told me to come back in 2 weeks to get them removed. Two weeks to the day I get a phone call from the doctors office from who knows maybe a secretary or receptionist that says I need to come in and I said yes I know I'm getting my stitches out and she said no you need to come in and bring your husband because you tested positive and I said positive for what and she said you have cancer. I was shocked that the doctor didn't even give me this information And that I had heard it from someone that I've never met. When I went into meet with the doctor he said to me that it doesn't look very good and that it was 1.8 MM. He made me feel like my life was almost over. I had a large rescission done to my left thigh and they told me that my margins were clear, however five years later I had a little tiny pimple of a spot on the incision area and my dermatologist told me to have a biopsy done. Unfortunately it turned out to be melanoma again and I had another surgery done to my left thigh. The surgeon really did a bad job and it looked like a shark had attacked my leg. Once again they said the margins were clear and a year later I had a lump on my incision and went to the dermatologist and she told me that we could either watch it or have it biopsied and I said with my history I think it's important to get a biopsy and once again it came. She told me that she thought it was scarred tissue or a fatty tissue and said she had never seen a sub dermal tumor like that before, hence another surgery was performed. The incision was so large it was the size of a football and it took a plastic surgeon to sew me up without doing a skin graph . In the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. It had been there for years and years. After biopsy, it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and had a Mohs procedure done to my nose in the meantime I had a spot on my nose that I was concerned about and they said it was nothing and then I went to a different dermatologist and she said she was 99% positive that it was basal cell carcinoma. After a biopsy it was confirmed that I had basal cell carcinoma and a Mohs procedure was done on my nose. It took four sections of my nose to be removed before they thought they had all the cancer. I'm from Hawaii and I took a look at my nose and I said oh my God it looks like diamond head crater. They asked me if I wanted to have a flap done or plastic surgery and I said definitely plastic surgery. They ended up doing a skin graft from behind my ear and plugging my nose up with the skin and did a pretty good job. Now two years later I find a lump under my arm and they misdiagnosed it and tell me that I have breast cancer. Then they decide to check the biopsy again and find out that my melanoma has metastasized into my lungs, liver, sternum, and under my arm. My friend told me about this place called The Angeles Clinic in Santa Monica where she knew someone that had stage 4 melanoma of the brain. He went to this clinic and he is alive to this day which was probably about 16 years ago so I decided that that was where I was going to go for treatment. UCSD where I live told me I was terminal and I had maybe six months to a year at the most but when I went to The Angeles Clinic they told me they had some cutting edge drugs and they would probably put me in remission. I went on a combination of Abraxane and Avastin and when they told me that I was going to lose my hair I went out and had my head shaved because I had long beautiful hair and donated it to locks of love which is an organization for children who have cancer. I picked out a couple cute wigs and became a blonde a brunette and a redhead all in one day. That was eight years ago and as you can see I'm still here. I believe that is because I'm such a positive person and I'm always joking about life and my cancer and everything else and that your attitude is so important to try not to worry because worrying is the worst thing for you. They did put me in remission after two years and kept me on Avastin for two more years and unfortunately my tumor in my sternum came back so they took me off avastin and I did some radiation and about a year later I started another trial. The trial turned out to be Keytruda, which is in immunotherapy drug and it happens to be the drug that saved former President Jimmy Carter's life. Well I've been on the drive for three to half years and my tumor is now not responding, so now I am considering having major surgery and removing my sternum. My doctor at the clinic, Dr Peter Boasberg, is the one to saved my life. There is a new trial out that is called OX40 that he wants me to consider before having surgery. I've been traveling every two weeks for eight years now from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatment and I'm seriously thinking about just having surgery and trying to cut it out. I'm hoping to talk to somebody that is on the trial that he wants me to try to see what their side effects are and how they feel and if it's working for them. Anyway I know how you feel about Drs screwing up sometimes because it's happened to me too. However if you know anyone that ever have a metastasis you should have them go to The Angeles Clinic. People travel from all over the world to come to this place. I hope that I have given you some encouragement because I talk to a lot of cancer patients and tell them my story and most of them are blown away because I have such a good attitude. Please try not to worry and believe that you're going to be just fine. I hope you have a Wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year. Remember to stay positive!
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