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Overcoming side effects

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    Belah
    Participant
      We are having a hard time with side effects. My husband is stage 4 with smallish Mets in his bones, liver and spleen. He was on Braf and mek inhibitors which caused pretty severe side effects.

      Now he’s on opdivo. He’s lost a lot of weight and is struggling to keep any fat at all. Now he gets very short of breathe when walking and today nearly passed out from being in the heat (just from walking from the car into a store.)

      It’s hard watching him go through this. The doctors here are a joke. He goes to MD.Anderson when we can actually get there. (August is our next trip.)

      So I feel like I have to treat his symptoms. And I have no idea what to do. He is 30 and walks like a frail old old person. I don’t know if it will ever get better, but I can tell you, the moral is dismal. Can ANYONE who has gone through any of the symptoms, shed some light on what they did. Or give me any insight as to what a caretaker can do.

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        Aubreesmommy41
        Participant

          I don't have answers but I'd like to pray for your husband and you. Please lord help this young man and his wife overcome this illness. Let his treatment begin to work with minimal side effects. Let him be on the road to ned. All this I ask of you father ijnip amen 

          Aubreesmommy41
          Participant

            I don't have answers but I'd like to pray for your husband and you. Please lord help this young man and his wife overcome this illness. Let his treatment begin to work with minimal side effects. Let him be on the road to ned. All this I ask of you father ijnip amen 

            Aubreesmommy41
            Participant

              I don't have answers but I'd like to pray for your husband and you. Please lord help this young man and his wife overcome this illness. Let his treatment begin to work with minimal side effects. Let him be on the road to ned. All this I ask of you father ijnip amen 

              MoiraM
              Participant

                I have not been treated with opdivo. (I was on ipi/Yervoy. I am in the UK. I dropped 3 stone when I was on Ipi.)

                Are you in contact with MD Anderson via email or some other means of communication? I was in contact with my team by email with a specialist nurse. That meant I could check things with her. If she did not have the answer, she asked my doctor.

                You do not say how long your husband has been on opdivo. Is he having regular blood tests? (I was one of those people for whom Ipi chomped my anterior pituitary gland and many of my symptoms were because of hormone deficiencies.)

                Have you tried those drinks that replace a meal? (In the UK the most common is 'Complan'.) At least them he would be getting the calories, vitamins and minerals he requires.

                As for the shortness of breath, I do not know about that. My GP (primary care physician) suggested checking me for asthma and gave me an inhaler. It helped a bit.

                MoiraM
                Participant

                  I have not been treated with opdivo. (I was on ipi/Yervoy. I am in the UK. I dropped 3 stone when I was on Ipi.)

                  Are you in contact with MD Anderson via email or some other means of communication? I was in contact with my team by email with a specialist nurse. That meant I could check things with her. If she did not have the answer, she asked my doctor.

                  You do not say how long your husband has been on opdivo. Is he having regular blood tests? (I was one of those people for whom Ipi chomped my anterior pituitary gland and many of my symptoms were because of hormone deficiencies.)

                  Have you tried those drinks that replace a meal? (In the UK the most common is 'Complan'.) At least them he would be getting the calories, vitamins and minerals he requires.

                  As for the shortness of breath, I do not know about that. My GP (primary care physician) suggested checking me for asthma and gave me an inhaler. It helped a bit.

                  MoiraM
                  Participant

                    I have not been treated with opdivo. (I was on ipi/Yervoy. I am in the UK. I dropped 3 stone when I was on Ipi.)

                    Are you in contact with MD Anderson via email or some other means of communication? I was in contact with my team by email with a specialist nurse. That meant I could check things with her. If she did not have the answer, she asked my doctor.

                    You do not say how long your husband has been on opdivo. Is he having regular blood tests? (I was one of those people for whom Ipi chomped my anterior pituitary gland and many of my symptoms were because of hormone deficiencies.)

                    Have you tried those drinks that replace a meal? (In the UK the most common is 'Complan'.) At least them he would be getting the calories, vitamins and minerals he requires.

                    As for the shortness of breath, I do not know about that. My GP (primary care physician) suggested checking me for asthma and gave me an inhaler. It helped a bit.

                    Polymath
                    Participant

                      Belah,

                      Has any doctor suggested steroids?  Prednisone is given commonly to reduce a host of side-effects, stimulate appetite, and provide energy.  Shortness of breath could be some kind of lung inflammation which steroid treatment is effective at treating. Even a low-dose of 10mg daily may make a big difference.

                      Gary

                      Polymath
                      Participant

                        Belah,

                        Has any doctor suggested steroids?  Prednisone is given commonly to reduce a host of side-effects, stimulate appetite, and provide energy.  Shortness of breath could be some kind of lung inflammation which steroid treatment is effective at treating. Even a low-dose of 10mg daily may make a big difference.

                        Gary

                        Polymath
                        Participant

                          Belah,

                          Has any doctor suggested steroids?  Prednisone is given commonly to reduce a host of side-effects, stimulate appetite, and provide energy.  Shortness of breath could be some kind of lung inflammation which steroid treatment is effective at treating. Even a low-dose of 10mg daily may make a big difference.

                          Gary

                          WithinMySkin
                          Participant
                            Hi Belah. I’m so sorry to hear your husband is having such a difficult time with his treatment. As the (32 year old) patient and wife, I know going through this is incredibly difficult, especially for morale. It hard to live life when you havent had a chance to even get there yet. The best thing for morale for me has been laughing and having fun when you can. Watch funny movies. Make a new hobby for him, like building model planes. Something he can do that’s not too physical. I learned to cross stitch and started a bee hive. It’s the little things that make a difference.

                            I’ve also experienced weight loss throughout treatment, too. The best advice I have here is make EVERY calorie count with nutrient dense foods. Ensure, gatorade, juice, V8 (or bloody mary mix) for liquids. Soups were great, but make sure its not just veggies. Switch to whole milk or heavy cream, whole fat cheese, full fat butter, and olive oil. Peanut butter, nuts, and avocado are a great addition, and if he’s a meat eater, lots of protiens at full fat (bacon and steak, for example). Encourage his appetite by just having a ton of food around.

                            I’d also encourage you to get in touch with MD Anderson about his shortness of breath. As others have said, this should be looked into further.

                            I wish you and your husband all the best. Keep us updated!

                            WithinMySkin
                            Participant
                              Hi Belah. I’m so sorry to hear your husband is having such a difficult time with his treatment. As the (32 year old) patient and wife, I know going through this is incredibly difficult, especially for morale. It hard to live life when you havent had a chance to even get there yet. The best thing for morale for me has been laughing and having fun when you can. Watch funny movies. Make a new hobby for him, like building model planes. Something he can do that’s not too physical. I learned to cross stitch and started a bee hive. It’s the little things that make a difference.

                              I’ve also experienced weight loss throughout treatment, too. The best advice I have here is make EVERY calorie count with nutrient dense foods. Ensure, gatorade, juice, V8 (or bloody mary mix) for liquids. Soups were great, but make sure its not just veggies. Switch to whole milk or heavy cream, whole fat cheese, full fat butter, and olive oil. Peanut butter, nuts, and avocado are a great addition, and if he’s a meat eater, lots of protiens at full fat (bacon and steak, for example). Encourage his appetite by just having a ton of food around.

                              I’d also encourage you to get in touch with MD Anderson about his shortness of breath. As others have said, this should be looked into further.

                              I wish you and your husband all the best. Keep us updated!

                              WithinMySkin
                              Participant
                                Hi Belah. I’m so sorry to hear your husband is having such a difficult time with his treatment. As the (32 year old) patient and wife, I know going through this is incredibly difficult, especially for morale. It hard to live life when you havent had a chance to even get there yet. The best thing for morale for me has been laughing and having fun when you can. Watch funny movies. Make a new hobby for him, like building model planes. Something he can do that’s not too physical. I learned to cross stitch and started a bee hive. It’s the little things that make a difference.

                                I’ve also experienced weight loss throughout treatment, too. The best advice I have here is make EVERY calorie count with nutrient dense foods. Ensure, gatorade, juice, V8 (or bloody mary mix) for liquids. Soups were great, but make sure its not just veggies. Switch to whole milk or heavy cream, whole fat cheese, full fat butter, and olive oil. Peanut butter, nuts, and avocado are a great addition, and if he’s a meat eater, lots of protiens at full fat (bacon and steak, for example). Encourage his appetite by just having a ton of food around.

                                I’d also encourage you to get in touch with MD Anderson about his shortness of breath. As others have said, this should be looked into further.

                                I wish you and your husband all the best. Keep us updated!

                                Rita and Charles
                                Participant

                                  Hi Belah, 

                                  My husband as well is going thorugh this, we just stopped the BRAF combo due to side effects. We are "on a break" right now before next option of Keytruda. Right now he is stable, we'll do more tests and a PET in early July to see how his body is reponding being off the Taf/MEK combo.

                                  It would help to know how long he has been on his current treatment?  And on a side note, just curious on how long on the combo? Charles withstood about 8 months before it got too hard….

                                  Hoping that you can set up a profile and tell us more, this community has been such a great "melanoma university" for me…..great support.

                                  Rita

                                  Rita and Charles
                                  Participant

                                    Hi Belah, 

                                    My husband as well is going thorugh this, we just stopped the BRAF combo due to side effects. We are "on a break" right now before next option of Keytruda. Right now he is stable, we'll do more tests and a PET in early July to see how his body is reponding being off the Taf/MEK combo.

                                    It would help to know how long he has been on his current treatment?  And on a side note, just curious on how long on the combo? Charles withstood about 8 months before it got too hard….

                                    Hoping that you can set up a profile and tell us more, this community has been such a great "melanoma university" for me…..great support.

                                    Rita

                                    Rita and Charles
                                    Participant

                                      Hi Belah, 

                                      My husband as well is going thorugh this, we just stopped the BRAF combo due to side effects. We are "on a break" right now before next option of Keytruda. Right now he is stable, we'll do more tests and a PET in early July to see how his body is reponding being off the Taf/MEK combo.

                                      It would help to know how long he has been on his current treatment?  And on a side note, just curious on how long on the combo? Charles withstood about 8 months before it got too hard….

                                      Hoping that you can set up a profile and tell us more, this community has been such a great "melanoma university" for me…..great support.

                                      Rita

                                      Cathy M
                                      Participant
                                        For the shortness of breath with just walking. My husband was in the same shape with taking a shower and then hardly able to get out of the bathroom due to difficulty breathing. He is on Keytrude. Check your husband’s CBC – hemoglobin. My husband’s had dropped to 8.4. He was given a bloof transfusion and this helped that immensely. Problem being normal low hemoglobin 13.– and they don’t want to give transfusiin until it drops to 8. Insist on relief!! I believe oncology treatments should include strong management of symptoms!!
                                        Cathy M
                                        Participant
                                          For the shortness of breath with just walking. My husband was in the same shape with taking a shower and then hardly able to get out of the bathroom due to difficulty breathing. He is on Keytrude. Check your husband’s CBC – hemoglobin. My husband’s had dropped to 8.4. He was given a bloof transfusion and this helped that immensely. Problem being normal low hemoglobin 13.– and they don’t want to give transfusiin until it drops to 8. Insist on relief!! I believe oncology treatments should include strong management of symptoms!!
                                          Cathy M
                                          Participant
                                            For the shortness of breath with just walking. My husband was in the same shape with taking a shower and then hardly able to get out of the bathroom due to difficulty breathing. He is on Keytrude. Check your husband’s CBC – hemoglobin. My husband’s had dropped to 8.4. He was given a bloof transfusion and this helped that immensely. Problem being normal low hemoglobin 13.– and they don’t want to give transfusiin until it drops to 8. Insist on relief!! I believe oncology treatments should include strong management of symptoms!!
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