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- February 12, 2017 at 3:35 pm
John Moore 9/12/1960 – 2/4/2017
It is with a heavy (and sometimes angry) heart that I share my husband's passing on the board. After 3+ years of battling Stage IV, his fight is over. He held on to his fighting spirit to the very end. He died with me holding his hand, playing his Eagles World Tour DVD and with me telling him it was ok to go, I would be fine, and how I dearly loved him and the time we had been able to spend together.
Melanoma is a horrible disease. I watched it break down his body but never his spirit. I watched it over 3+ years take from me my lifetime companion little by little. But what it can never take from me are my memories. Mountain biking, ATV racing, Jeep exploring, walking our Great Dane, moving cross country because it was my dream to "live in the west".
When diagnosed Stage IV, his goal became to raise awareness. He participated in news interviews. I made awareness packets every year and distributed them at the cancer center where I worked and with friends and neighbors. He was interviewed for a documentary about genomic sequencing that was made into a DVD by the students at Dixie State Univeristy in St. George, Utah.
So…I will continue his fight. I will continue to participate in 5K's. I will continue with my information packets. I will volunteer for skin cancer checks at the dermatologist's office. Melanoma may have taken the love of my life physically from me but it cannot take his fighting spirit and our determination to educate others about it's silent deadliness.
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- February 12, 2017 at 4:56 pm
I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like he put up a very brave fight. Please keep doing the work you are doing. Fight on!
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- February 12, 2017 at 4:56 pm
I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like he put up a very brave fight. Please keep doing the work you are doing. Fight on!
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- February 12, 2017 at 4:56 pm
I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like he put up a very brave fight. Please keep doing the work you are doing. Fight on!
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- February 12, 2017 at 6:08 pm
Very proud of you! Keep on his spirit.
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- February 12, 2017 at 6:08 pm
Very proud of you! Keep on his spirit.
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- February 12, 2017 at 6:08 pm
Very proud of you! Keep on his spirit.
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- February 12, 2017 at 8:25 pm
Cathy,
What a wonderful carer you were and your husband so lucky to have you by his side! You should come join us (although a bit far) at the biggest 5k for melanoma, http://www.safefromthesun.org It is a wonderful event and you will not be alone but with many others who have fought this battle.
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- February 12, 2017 at 8:25 pm
Cathy,
What a wonderful carer you were and your husband so lucky to have you by his side! You should come join us (although a bit far) at the biggest 5k for melanoma, http://www.safefromthesun.org It is a wonderful event and you will not be alone but with many others who have fought this battle.
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- February 12, 2017 at 8:25 pm
Cathy,
What a wonderful carer you were and your husband so lucky to have you by his side! You should come join us (although a bit far) at the biggest 5k for melanoma, http://www.safefromthesun.org It is a wonderful event and you will not be alone but with many others who have fought this battle.
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 12, 2017 at 9:55 pm
Dear Cathy,
I am so very sorry to hear your news. I will say a little prayer for you both tonight. This horrible disease takes so much. You and your husbands dignity and courage in facing this is inspirational.
Have an internet hug from another walking the stage 4 tightrope and thank you for the awareness work you have both been doing. It is so important.
Best wishes
Deb
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- February 13, 2017 at 3:17 am
Cathy, thanks for your strength to post and for you and John’s advocacy efforts to help us all and prevent others from having to go through this. I admire your strength and can only hope that I can follow your example. Your first paragraphs brought me to tears as I was waiting for my wife to finish her second radiation session, it echoed my feelings for her. Feel him holding your hand forever.
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- February 13, 2017 at 3:17 am
Cathy, thanks for your strength to post and for you and John’s advocacy efforts to help us all and prevent others from having to go through this. I admire your strength and can only hope that I can follow your example. Your first paragraphs brought me to tears as I was waiting for my wife to finish her second radiation session, it echoed my feelings for her. Feel him holding your hand forever.
Rob -
- February 13, 2017 at 3:17 am
Cathy, thanks for your strength to post and for you and John’s advocacy efforts to help us all and prevent others from having to go through this. I admire your strength and can only hope that I can follow your example. Your first paragraphs brought me to tears as I was waiting for my wife to finish her second radiation session, it echoed my feelings for her. Feel him holding your hand forever.
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- February 13, 2017 at 7:45 am
Oh Cathy … I am so, so sorry to learn about John's passing. May I say though that the strength you are demonstrating right now is astounding and yes, this demon can never diminish the spirit of this lovely man you describe. May peace now quickly find its way to your heart!!!
Barb
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- February 13, 2017 at 7:45 am
Oh Cathy … I am so, so sorry to learn about John's passing. May I say though that the strength you are demonstrating right now is astounding and yes, this demon can never diminish the spirit of this lovely man you describe. May peace now quickly find its way to your heart!!!
Barb
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- February 13, 2017 at 7:45 am
Oh Cathy … I am so, so sorry to learn about John's passing. May I say though that the strength you are demonstrating right now is astounding and yes, this demon can never diminish the spirit of this lovely man you describe. May peace now quickly find its way to your heart!!!
Barb
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- February 13, 2017 at 11:59 am
So sorry for your loss Cathy. -
- February 13, 2017 at 11:59 am
So sorry for your loss Cathy. -
- February 13, 2017 at 11:59 am
So sorry for your loss Cathy. -
- February 13, 2017 at 12:11 pm
I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Rosa
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- February 14, 2017 at 4:43 am
Dear Cathy. i am so very sorry to hear of your beloved husbands passing.
Jen
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- February 14, 2017 at 4:43 am
Dear Cathy. i am so very sorry to hear of your beloved husbands passing.
Jen
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- February 14, 2017 at 4:43 am
Dear Cathy. i am so very sorry to hear of your beloved husbands passing.
Jen
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- February 16, 2017 at 9:55 am
Cathy,
thank you very much for finding the courage to post this. Thanks I just found out today that I'm in Johns shoes. Up until now I have spent my time battling this disease. But now it's time to shift my focus and I think what John was doing is what I want to do.
Putting out knowledge of this disease is very important. It's very important people catch it early. That sounds like a great thing for me to do.
I am so so sorry that you lost John. He sounds like he was a great man. The fact that you are going to keep continuing to fight for him brings tears to my eyes. He was very lucky to have you as his wife.
– Paul
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- February 16, 2017 at 9:55 am
Cathy,
thank you very much for finding the courage to post this. Thanks I just found out today that I'm in Johns shoes. Up until now I have spent my time battling this disease. But now it's time to shift my focus and I think what John was doing is what I want to do.
Putting out knowledge of this disease is very important. It's very important people catch it early. That sounds like a great thing for me to do.
I am so so sorry that you lost John. He sounds like he was a great man. The fact that you are going to keep continuing to fight for him brings tears to my eyes. He was very lucky to have you as his wife.
– Paul
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