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New mole question

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    beth0277
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      Good morning all. I am 27 years old and go to the dermatologist religiously. I have intense skin fears. I know it is normal to get new moles up until around age 35. I have what started out looking like an ingrown hair spot in my bikini area. I squeezed at it and nothing happened and it persisted so I assumed it was a mole developing. This was about 6 months ago.

      Good morning all. I am 27 years old and go to the dermatologist religiously. I have intense skin fears. I know it is normal to get new moles up until around age 35. I have what started out looking like an ingrown hair spot in my bikini area. I squeezed at it and nothing happened and it persisted so I assumed it was a mole developing. This was about 6 months ago. I will be honest that I haven't really shaved that area much lately to see the spot, but when I shaved a few days ago, I noticed the "mole" is very noticeable now and about 3 times the size of the little speck that I first noticed. It looks completely normal, and is still quite small. The color, shape, borders, everything looks perfect. I just am not sure for new moles that come in, do they start small and get a little bigger within a span of a few months and then stay that size or do they usually pop up spontaneously the size they are going to be? One other factor is that I started birth control in July and I know it can have an effect on moles. I developed several new moles when I was pregnant but I don't remember if they grew to the size they are now or just popped up the larger size they are now. I have another appointment for a full body check in 3 months but if this seems concerning I will go in sooner. The only difference between this and some of my other newer moles is that it is a bit lighter. It seems like most of my new moles have come in darker but this looks more like my older moles.

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        beth0277
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          I should add that I recently had a moderately atypical mole removed on my shoulder. This has increased my fears. The area of this new mole is out of where it would have been effected by sunlight, but I know that you can get melanoma where you don't have sun exposure.

          beth0277
          Participant

            I should add that I recently had a moderately atypical mole removed on my shoulder. This has increased my fears. The area of this new mole is out of where it would have been effected by sunlight, but I know that you can get melanoma where you don't have sun exposure.

            beth0277
            Participant

              I should add that I recently had a moderately atypical mole removed on my shoulder. This has increased my fears. The area of this new mole is out of where it would have been effected by sunlight, but I know that you can get melanoma where you don't have sun exposure.

              Janner
              Participant

                According to a doctor who runs a mole mapping clinic (photographs atypical moles to watch for change):

                "New and like all your other moles is fine.  New and different from everything else (ugly duckling) should be checked out."

                It sounds like this mole is just a basic mole.  Yes, they can get bigger.  But as long as this one isn't out of the norm for your other moles, I would think it is just fine.  However, we can only give generalized info here.  If this is something you're worried about, please see your doctor.

                  beth0277
                  Participant

                    I guess maybe I just don't understand the normal growth pattern of a mole. This started as a speck and stayed that way for a few months and then now (probably 3 months since I have really paid attenion) it is the size of a normal mole. It is still small, but I don't know if they are supposed to grow like that or if they come in at the size they are going to stay.

                    Janner
                    Participant

                      Sounds normal to me.

                      Janner
                      Participant

                        Sounds normal to me.

                        Janner
                        Participant

                          Sounds normal to me.

                          beth0277
                          Participant

                            I guess maybe I just don't understand the normal growth pattern of a mole. This started as a speck and stayed that way for a few months and then now (probably 3 months since I have really paid attenion) it is the size of a normal mole. It is still small, but I don't know if they are supposed to grow like that or if they come in at the size they are going to stay.

                            beth0277
                            Participant

                              I guess maybe I just don't understand the normal growth pattern of a mole. This started as a speck and stayed that way for a few months and then now (probably 3 months since I have really paid attenion) it is the size of a normal mole. It is still small, but I don't know if they are supposed to grow like that or if they come in at the size they are going to stay.

                            Janner
                            Participant

                              According to a doctor who runs a mole mapping clinic (photographs atypical moles to watch for change):

                              "New and like all your other moles is fine.  New and different from everything else (ugly duckling) should be checked out."

                              It sounds like this mole is just a basic mole.  Yes, they can get bigger.  But as long as this one isn't out of the norm for your other moles, I would think it is just fine.  However, we can only give generalized info here.  If this is something you're worried about, please see your doctor.

                              Janner
                              Participant

                                According to a doctor who runs a mole mapping clinic (photographs atypical moles to watch for change):

                                "New and like all your other moles is fine.  New and different from everything else (ugly duckling) should be checked out."

                                It sounds like this mole is just a basic mole.  Yes, they can get bigger.  But as long as this one isn't out of the norm for your other moles, I would think it is just fine.  However, we can only give generalized info here.  If this is something you're worried about, please see your doctor.

                                MichaelFL
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                                  Not trying to scare you further, but you will most likely get new moles way past 35. I am almost 50 and they are still showing up.

                                  MichaelFL
                                  Participant

                                    Not trying to scare you further, but you will most likely get new moles way past 35. I am almost 50 and they are still showing up.

                                    MichaelFL
                                    Participant

                                      Not trying to scare you further, but you will most likely get new moles way past 35. I am almost 50 and they are still showing up.

                                      Tim–MRF
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                                        New moles start small and can grow, so that in itself is not an issue.  

                                        I am not a doctor, but my first impression is that it is probably nothing.  But you are clearly worried about it, so why not get it checked out?  I see no down side to having a dermatologist look at it.  At the very least you will be able to let go of your anxiety about it, and peace of mind is an important thing.

                                        Tim–MRF

                                        Tim–MRF
                                        Guest

                                          New moles start small and can grow, so that in itself is not an issue.  

                                          I am not a doctor, but my first impression is that it is probably nothing.  But you are clearly worried about it, so why not get it checked out?  I see no down side to having a dermatologist look at it.  At the very least you will be able to let go of your anxiety about it, and peace of mind is an important thing.

                                          Tim–MRF

                                          Tim–MRF
                                          Guest

                                            New moles start small and can grow, so that in itself is not an issue.  

                                            I am not a doctor, but my first impression is that it is probably nothing.  But you are clearly worried about it, so why not get it checked out?  I see no down side to having a dermatologist look at it.  At the very least you will be able to let go of your anxiety about it, and peace of mind is an important thing.

                                            Tim–MRF

                                            beth0277
                                            Participant

                                              Thanks everyone. I guess I am just confused because I have had moles pop up before but I don't remember them starting small and then getting bigger. It is a completely normal looking mole, it just started as a speck and is now the size of maybe a marker dot. Still small and the color and everything is fine. I have a full body check in a few months and will have it looked at then, I just was unsure if I should make an earlier appointment for it.

                                              beth0277
                                              Participant

                                                Thanks everyone. I guess I am just confused because I have had moles pop up before but I don't remember them starting small and then getting bigger. It is a completely normal looking mole, it just started as a speck and is now the size of maybe a marker dot. Still small and the color and everything is fine. I have a full body check in a few months and will have it looked at then, I just was unsure if I should make an earlier appointment for it.

                                                beth0277
                                                Participant

                                                  Thanks everyone. I guess I am just confused because I have had moles pop up before but I don't remember them starting small and then getting bigger. It is a completely normal looking mole, it just started as a speck and is now the size of maybe a marker dot. Still small and the color and everything is fine. I have a full body check in a few months and will have it looked at then, I just was unsure if I should make an earlier appointment for it.

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