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    _Paul_
    Participant

      I have been having problems trying to post an update. So I will it in chunks.

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        _Paul_
        Participant

          Apparently  I just can't get enough of the ICU. This time in Beverly Hills at Cedars-Sinai Hospital.

          I needed to get a pericardiocentesis performed to drain the fluid from around my heart. Normally the sac contains just enough for lubrication,  a few milliliters at best. Mine is still draining and 810ml has been removed so far.  The catheter in my chest is uncomfortable but it needs to remain in place until less than 50ml is drained in a 24 hour period.

          Due to a screw up in the ICU, 2 nights ago I was taken off all pain meds for about 6 hours until some doctors showed up that had more than half a brain. My blood pressure had dropped and the nursing staff were afraid to give me pain meds until it returned to normal. All that was required was to infuse me with some IV saline,  but that rocket science exceeded the nursing staff who also failed to contact an actual doctor. Once the saline was given, my BP went back up they finally started giving me pain medication again. The bottom line is that I spent 6 hours in agony for no good reason.

          I am a much happier camper at the moment and hope to get discharged on Friday or Saturday. Then I can get back to the task at hand of being consented for the trial. I still have high hopes for this trial.

          A Phase II Study of Glembatumumab Vedotin, an Anti-gpNMB Antibody-Drug Conjugate, in Combination With Varlilumab (CD27 Checkpoint) in Patients with Advanced Melanoma: https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT02302339?term=Glembatumumab+Vedotin+varlilumab&rank=1

          – Paul

            _Paul_
            Participant

              LA is such a phenomenon. It has been forever attracting all the beautiful people who have had kids, and had some kids, etc. All my nurses are hotties. Sigh. The challenges of being a patient. Don't worry Pilar!

              – Paul

              _Paul_
              Participant

                LA is such a phenomenon. It has been forever attracting all the beautiful people who have had kids, and had some kids, etc. All my nurses are hotties. Sigh. The challenges of being a patient. Don't worry Pilar!

                – Paul

                _Paul_
                Participant

                  LA is such a phenomenon. It has been forever attracting all the beautiful people who have had kids, and had some kids, etc. All my nurses are hotties. Sigh. The challenges of being a patient. Don't worry Pilar!

                  – Paul

                  snow white
                  Participant

                    I was really starting to worry, I am so glad to see your post.  Sounds like you had some real "winners" taking care of you. I will tell you this is the exact reason I absolutely demand that someone be with Dad at all times while in the hospital (me or mom), its a dangerous place!  I am glad to hear that you finally got your pain meds and that you are feeling a bit better.  Now maybe those hotties can do there job correctly.  Hang in there Paul, we are all rooting for you and hoping that this new plan is your silver bullett. PS: still waiting on Dads results, I can barely sleep thinking about it, sigh.

                    xo Jen

                    _Paul_
                    Participant

                      Thanks Jen, things got much better after that. When the cardiologist that did the procedure found out he went nuts and heads rolled. I also took many opportunities to explain to the nurses that they needed to call the doctor, not just the resident who was out of his depth. I hope future patients are spared that unnecessary agony.

                      – Paul

                      _Paul_
                      Participant

                        Thanks Jen, things got much better after that. When the cardiologist that did the procedure found out he went nuts and heads rolled. I also took many opportunities to explain to the nurses that they needed to call the doctor, not just the resident who was out of his depth. I hope future patients are spared that unnecessary agony.

                        – Paul

                        _Paul_
                        Participant

                          Thanks Jen, things got much better after that. When the cardiologist that did the procedure found out he went nuts and heads rolled. I also took many opportunities to explain to the nurses that they needed to call the doctor, not just the resident who was out of his depth. I hope future patients are spared that unnecessary agony.

                          – Paul

                          snow white
                          Participant

                            I was really starting to worry, I am so glad to see your post.  Sounds like you had some real "winners" taking care of you. I will tell you this is the exact reason I absolutely demand that someone be with Dad at all times while in the hospital (me or mom), its a dangerous place!  I am glad to hear that you finally got your pain meds and that you are feeling a bit better.  Now maybe those hotties can do there job correctly.  Hang in there Paul, we are all rooting for you and hoping that this new plan is your silver bullett. PS: still waiting on Dads results, I can barely sleep thinking about it, sigh.

                            xo Jen

                            snow white
                            Participant

                              I was really starting to worry, I am so glad to see your post.  Sounds like you had some real "winners" taking care of you. I will tell you this is the exact reason I absolutely demand that someone be with Dad at all times while in the hospital (me or mom), its a dangerous place!  I am glad to hear that you finally got your pain meds and that you are feeling a bit better.  Now maybe those hotties can do there job correctly.  Hang in there Paul, we are all rooting for you and hoping that this new plan is your silver bullett. PS: still waiting on Dads results, I can barely sleep thinking about it, sigh.

                              xo Jen

                              cf91
                              Participant

                                I'm sorry to hear what you had to go through.  Hope your doing well now.  I'm glad you posted the link to the study.  I'm actually starting this trial next week in Dallas.  I feel like I'm starting to run out of options as this will make my 6th different treatment.  Keeping my fingers crossed!!

                                _Paul_
                                Participant

                                  Let's keep in touch. I would love to know how it works for you. It looks very promising. I feel the same way – many treatments and still looking for the one I need before time runs out.

                                  – Paul

                                  _Paul_
                                  Participant

                                    Let's keep in touch. I would love to know how it works for you. It looks very promising. I feel the same way – many treatments and still looking for the one I need before time runs out.

                                    – Paul

                                    _Paul_
                                    Participant

                                      Let's keep in touch. I would love to know how it works for you. It looks very promising. I feel the same way – many treatments and still looking for the one I need before time runs out.

                                      – Paul

                                      cf91
                                      Participant

                                        I'm sorry to hear what you had to go through.  Hope your doing well now.  I'm glad you posted the link to the study.  I'm actually starting this trial next week in Dallas.  I feel like I'm starting to run out of options as this will make my 6th different treatment.  Keeping my fingers crossed!!

                                        cf91
                                        Participant

                                          I'm sorry to hear what you had to go through.  Hope your doing well now.  I'm glad you posted the link to the study.  I'm actually starting this trial next week in Dallas.  I feel like I'm starting to run out of options as this will make my 6th different treatment.  Keeping my fingers crossed!!

                                          cancersnewnormal
                                          Participant

                                            Oh my wow. You are definitely one tough dude! Mentally AND physically! Good thing you've got such a strong sense of humor. 6 hours of chest catheter pain is unimaginable. **gentle hugs** I once came about 2 seconds away from literally kicking over a fellowship doc. It turned into a high vocal volume dispute over the malfunction of a chest tube drain pump. Had the nurses in the hall not come in to settle the situation, I'd probably still be paying legal fees. They have good intentions, but sometimes the listening could use some work! Hoping you can get out of there TODAY or tomorrow! We're all here pulling for you…. and some of us are close enough to come throat punch a nurse or two if you really need it. 😉 

                                            cancersnewnormal
                                            Participant

                                              Oh my wow. You are definitely one tough dude! Mentally AND physically! Good thing you've got such a strong sense of humor. 6 hours of chest catheter pain is unimaginable. **gentle hugs** I once came about 2 seconds away from literally kicking over a fellowship doc. It turned into a high vocal volume dispute over the malfunction of a chest tube drain pump. Had the nurses in the hall not come in to settle the situation, I'd probably still be paying legal fees. They have good intentions, but sometimes the listening could use some work! Hoping you can get out of there TODAY or tomorrow! We're all here pulling for you…. and some of us are close enough to come throat punch a nurse or two if you really need it. 😉 

                                              snow white
                                              Participant

                                                LOL Niki. I was thinking the exact same thing.  I can hop in a car right now and be there in 45 minutes if need be and I may look nice, but I can advocate like no other, been doing it my daughters entire life (she is 22) due to Rheumatoid Arthritis.  Don't worry Paul we got your backdevil

                                                snow white
                                                Participant

                                                  LOL Niki. I was thinking the exact same thing.  I can hop in a car right now and be there in 45 minutes if need be and I may look nice, but I can advocate like no other, been doing it my daughters entire life (she is 22) due to Rheumatoid Arthritis.  Don't worry Paul we got your backdevil

                                                  snow white
                                                  Participant

                                                    LOL Niki. I was thinking the exact same thing.  I can hop in a car right now and be there in 45 minutes if need be and I may look nice, but I can advocate like no other, been doing it my daughters entire life (she is 22) due to Rheumatoid Arthritis.  Don't worry Paul we got your backdevil

                                                    _Paul_
                                                    Participant

                                                      Jennifer and Niki you are funny! I have my own personal team of hit-women. I'm gonna let all the new nursing staffs know!

                                                      – Paul

                                                      _Paul_
                                                      Participant

                                                        Jennifer and Niki you are funny! I have my own personal team of hit-women. I'm gonna let all the new nursing staffs know!

                                                        – Paul

                                                        _Paul_
                                                        Participant

                                                          Jennifer and Niki you are funny! I have my own personal team of hit-women. I'm gonna let all the new nursing staffs know!

                                                          – Paul

                                                          _Paul_
                                                          Participant

                                                            LOL! I got the chest tube pulled this morning after draining over a liter and it feels great. Now I am out of the ICU as well but my lungs are slowly filling back up. They are going to give me a diuretic to combat that but still waiting for the orders to come through. I can't get consented for the trial until I am released from the hospital so I hope they get this straightened out soon.

                                                            – Paul

                                                            casagrayson
                                                            Participant

                                                              Glad they released you from the ICU.  Get that fluid stabilized so you can get the heck out of there!!

                                                              casagrayson
                                                              Participant

                                                                Glad they released you from the ICU.  Get that fluid stabilized so you can get the heck out of there!!

                                                                casagrayson
                                                                Participant

                                                                  Glad they released you from the ICU.  Get that fluid stabilized so you can get the heck out of there!!

                                                                  _Paul_
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    LOL! I got the chest tube pulled this morning after draining over a liter and it feels great. Now I am out of the ICU as well but my lungs are slowly filling back up. They are going to give me a diuretic to combat that but still waiting for the orders to come through. I can't get consented for the trial until I am released from the hospital so I hope they get this straightened out soon.

                                                                    – Paul

                                                                    _Paul_
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      LOL! I got the chest tube pulled this morning after draining over a liter and it feels great. Now I am out of the ICU as well but my lungs are slowly filling back up. They are going to give me a diuretic to combat that but still waiting for the orders to come through. I can't get consented for the trial until I am released from the hospital so I hope they get this straightened out soon.

                                                                      – Paul

                                                                      cancersnewnormal
                                                                      Participant

                                                                        Oh my wow. You are definitely one tough dude! Mentally AND physically! Good thing you've got such a strong sense of humor. 6 hours of chest catheter pain is unimaginable. **gentle hugs** I once came about 2 seconds away from literally kicking over a fellowship doc. It turned into a high vocal volume dispute over the malfunction of a chest tube drain pump. Had the nurses in the hall not come in to settle the situation, I'd probably still be paying legal fees. They have good intentions, but sometimes the listening could use some work! Hoping you can get out of there TODAY or tomorrow! We're all here pulling for you…. and some of us are close enough to come throat punch a nurse or two if you really need it. 😉 

                                                                        BBrakhane
                                                                        Participant

                                                                          I went through something vaguely similar, the night following my lung resection, I had a dilaudid PCA, it was doing fine while I was awake.  I had asked for something to help sleep because I had a roommate who was older, very loud and refused to turn his lights off.  The sleep med worked fine, but when I woke up around 12:30am, needless to say I hadnt hit my PCA button in 4 hours or so, so I was HURTING.  I knew I had been written for more dilaudid for breakthrough pain, my doctor and I had discussed it, and I had been given some in the afternoon when I first got to my room from Post op.  As an aside, Im a neurosurgical consultant, I work in the OR with surgeons every day, I am not naive, I am very knowledgable in post op pain management.  The night nurse said the resident said I could only have tylenol, I insisted that they at least look at my post op instruction, she said, "Sorry, thats all the resident said you could have."  Needless to say there was no more sleep that night, tylenol after rib spread, lung resection and a chest tube…when the nurse came in in the morning to check my PCA her eyes about popped out of her head when the machine registered how many times I had been banging that button all night long.  She said, "I had no idea you were in so much pain."  I said nice try, I told you all night long how bad it was hurting, and you chose to give me tylenol, instead of talking to the resident, you dont get to revise history now.  Glory of all glories, the attending and all the residents came in right at that moment!  The attending asked how I was doing, and I said not worth a damn!  He asked why, whats wrong?  I laid it all out for him while eyeballing all of the residents, trying to figure out which one it was, since he or she never even bothered to stick their head in the door during the night to find out what was going on!  They all were looking very intently at me until I finished my diatribe and then their notecards all got very interesting to them!  Needless to say, I got my pain meds, within about 5 minutes of that!  I feel your pain, complain long and loud if your pain needs are not being met!

                                                                          _Paul_
                                                                          Participant

                                                                            Oh my god that's horrible. Thank god you had the PCA but what you needed was an IV bolus to get back on top of that. I totally get there was no sleep that night. What I don't get is why it is such a herculean task to get someone to talk to the resident, or when the resident is out of his depth to call the on-call. Politics I guess.

                                                                            Thanks for the story! – Paul

                                                                            _Paul_
                                                                            Participant

                                                                              Oh my god that's horrible. Thank god you had the PCA but what you needed was an IV bolus to get back on top of that. I totally get there was no sleep that night. What I don't get is why it is such a herculean task to get someone to talk to the resident, or when the resident is out of his depth to call the on-call. Politics I guess.

                                                                              Thanks for the story! – Paul

                                                                              _Paul_
                                                                              Participant

                                                                                Oh my god that's horrible. Thank god you had the PCA but what you needed was an IV bolus to get back on top of that. I totally get there was no sleep that night. What I don't get is why it is such a herculean task to get someone to talk to the resident, or when the resident is out of his depth to call the on-call. Politics I guess.

                                                                                Thanks for the story! – Paul

                                                                                BBrakhane
                                                                                Participant

                                                                                  I went through something vaguely similar, the night following my lung resection, I had a dilaudid PCA, it was doing fine while I was awake.  I had asked for something to help sleep because I had a roommate who was older, very loud and refused to turn his lights off.  The sleep med worked fine, but when I woke up around 12:30am, needless to say I hadnt hit my PCA button in 4 hours or so, so I was HURTING.  I knew I had been written for more dilaudid for breakthrough pain, my doctor and I had discussed it, and I had been given some in the afternoon when I first got to my room from Post op.  As an aside, Im a neurosurgical consultant, I work in the OR with surgeons every day, I am not naive, I am very knowledgable in post op pain management.  The night nurse said the resident said I could only have tylenol, I insisted that they at least look at my post op instruction, she said, "Sorry, thats all the resident said you could have."  Needless to say there was no more sleep that night, tylenol after rib spread, lung resection and a chest tube…when the nurse came in in the morning to check my PCA her eyes about popped out of her head when the machine registered how many times I had been banging that button all night long.  She said, "I had no idea you were in so much pain."  I said nice try, I told you all night long how bad it was hurting, and you chose to give me tylenol, instead of talking to the resident, you dont get to revise history now.  Glory of all glories, the attending and all the residents came in right at that moment!  The attending asked how I was doing, and I said not worth a damn!  He asked why, whats wrong?  I laid it all out for him while eyeballing all of the residents, trying to figure out which one it was, since he or she never even bothered to stick their head in the door during the night to find out what was going on!  They all were looking very intently at me until I finished my diatribe and then their notecards all got very interesting to them!  Needless to say, I got my pain meds, within about 5 minutes of that!  I feel your pain, complain long and loud if your pain needs are not being met!

                                                                                  BBrakhane
                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                    I went through something vaguely similar, the night following my lung resection, I had a dilaudid PCA, it was doing fine while I was awake.  I had asked for something to help sleep because I had a roommate who was older, very loud and refused to turn his lights off.  The sleep med worked fine, but when I woke up around 12:30am, needless to say I hadnt hit my PCA button in 4 hours or so, so I was HURTING.  I knew I had been written for more dilaudid for breakthrough pain, my doctor and I had discussed it, and I had been given some in the afternoon when I first got to my room from Post op.  As an aside, Im a neurosurgical consultant, I work in the OR with surgeons every day, I am not naive, I am very knowledgable in post op pain management.  The night nurse said the resident said I could only have tylenol, I insisted that they at least look at my post op instruction, she said, "Sorry, thats all the resident said you could have."  Needless to say there was no more sleep that night, tylenol after rib spread, lung resection and a chest tube…when the nurse came in in the morning to check my PCA her eyes about popped out of her head when the machine registered how many times I had been banging that button all night long.  She said, "I had no idea you were in so much pain."  I said nice try, I told you all night long how bad it was hurting, and you chose to give me tylenol, instead of talking to the resident, you dont get to revise history now.  Glory of all glories, the attending and all the residents came in right at that moment!  The attending asked how I was doing, and I said not worth a damn!  He asked why, whats wrong?  I laid it all out for him while eyeballing all of the residents, trying to figure out which one it was, since he or she never even bothered to stick their head in the door during the night to find out what was going on!  They all were looking very intently at me until I finished my diatribe and then their notecards all got very interesting to them!  Needless to say, I got my pain meds, within about 5 minutes of that!  I feel your pain, complain long and loud if your pain needs are not being met!

                                                                                  _Paul_
                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                    Apparently  I just can't get enough of the ICU. This time in Beverly Hills at Cedars-Sinai Hospital.

                                                                                    I needed to get a pericardiocentesis performed to drain the fluid from around my heart. Normally the sac contains just enough for lubrication,  a few milliliters at best. Mine is still draining and 810ml has been removed so far.  The catheter in my chest is uncomfortable but it needs to remain in place until less than 50ml is drained in a 24 hour period.

                                                                                    Due to a screw up in the ICU, 2 nights ago I was taken off all pain meds for about 6 hours until some doctors showed up that had more than half a brain. My blood pressure had dropped and the nursing staff were afraid to give me pain meds until it returned to normal. All that was required was to infuse me with some IV saline,  but that rocket science exceeded the nursing staff who also failed to contact an actual doctor. Once the saline was given, my BP went back up they finally started giving me pain medication again. The bottom line is that I spent 6 hours in agony for no good reason.

                                                                                    I am a much happier camper at the moment and hope to get discharged on Friday or Saturday. Then I can get back to the task at hand of being consented for the trial. I still have high hopes for this trial.

                                                                                    A Phase II Study of Glembatumumab Vedotin, an Anti-gpNMB Antibody-Drug Conjugate, in Combination With Varlilumab (CD27 Checkpoint) in Patients with Advanced Melanoma: https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT02302339?term=Glembatumumab+Vedotin+varlilumab&rank=1

                                                                                    – Paul

                                                                                    _Paul_
                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                      Apparently  I just can't get enough of the ICU. This time in Beverly Hills at Cedars-Sinai Hospital.

                                                                                      I needed to get a pericardiocentesis performed to drain the fluid from around my heart. Normally the sac contains just enough for lubrication,  a few milliliters at best. Mine is still draining and 810ml has been removed so far.  The catheter in my chest is uncomfortable but it needs to remain in place until less than 50ml is drained in a 24 hour period.

                                                                                      Due to a screw up in the ICU, 2 nights ago I was taken off all pain meds for about 6 hours until some doctors showed up that had more than half a brain. My blood pressure had dropped and the nursing staff were afraid to give me pain meds until it returned to normal. All that was required was to infuse me with some IV saline,  but that rocket science exceeded the nursing staff who also failed to contact an actual doctor. Once the saline was given, my BP went back up they finally started giving me pain medication again. The bottom line is that I spent 6 hours in agony for no good reason.

                                                                                      I am a much happier camper at the moment and hope to get discharged on Friday or Saturday. Then I can get back to the task at hand of being consented for the trial. I still have high hopes for this trial.

                                                                                      A Phase II Study of Glembatumumab Vedotin, an Anti-gpNMB Antibody-Drug Conjugate, in Combination With Varlilumab (CD27 Checkpoint) in Patients with Advanced Melanoma: https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT02302339?term=Glembatumumab+Vedotin+varlilumab&rank=1

                                                                                      – Paul

                                                                                      adriana cooper
                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                        Paul, Sorry you continue to have these hurdles. Keep churning away and you will find success.

                                                                                        Rob

                                                                                          _Paul_
                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                            Thanks Rob. The hurdles make the valleys that follow pretty pleasant though. Say hi to Adriana for me.

                                                                                            – Paul

                                                                                            _Paul_
                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                              Thanks Rob. The hurdles make the valleys that follow pretty pleasant though. Say hi to Adriana for me.

                                                                                              – Paul

                                                                                              _Paul_
                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                Thanks Rob. The hurdles make the valleys that follow pretty pleasant though. Say hi to Adriana for me.

                                                                                                – Paul

                                                                                              adriana cooper
                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                Paul, Sorry you continue to have these hurdles. Keep churning away and you will find success.

                                                                                                Rob

                                                                                                adriana cooper
                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                  Paul, Sorry you continue to have these hurdles. Keep churning away and you will find success.

                                                                                                  Rob

                                                                                                  Bubbles
                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                    Oh, Paul!!!!  What a bunch of mess!!!  Glad you are feeling a bit better.  Idiots infuriate me and idiots in medicine are a personal affront.  So very sorry for all that you have been through!  Hang in there.  Glad you have been able to retain your sense of humor.  Still with fingers crossed for you to start your trial SOOOOOOOOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                      _Paul_
                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                        Thanks Celeste. And really, stuff like that is an exception to the rule. Most of the time the care I have been getting is excellent. It just feels good to vent that crap and everyone here is so sympathetic it's hard to resist. I feel very positive about this new trial.

                                                                                                        – Paul

                                                                                                        _Paul_
                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                          Thanks Celeste. And really, stuff like that is an exception to the rule. Most of the time the care I have been getting is excellent. It just feels good to vent that crap and everyone here is so sympathetic it's hard to resist. I feel very positive about this new trial.

                                                                                                          – Paul

                                                                                                          _Paul_
                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                            Thanks Celeste. And really, stuff like that is an exception to the rule. Most of the time the care I have been getting is excellent. It just feels good to vent that crap and everyone here is so sympathetic it's hard to resist. I feel very positive about this new trial.

                                                                                                            – Paul

                                                                                                          Bubbles
                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                            Oh, Paul!!!!  What a bunch of mess!!!  Glad you are feeling a bit better.  Idiots infuriate me and idiots in medicine are a personal affront.  So very sorry for all that you have been through!  Hang in there.  Glad you have been able to retain your sense of humor.  Still with fingers crossed for you to start your trial SOOOOOOOOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                            Bubbles
                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                              Oh, Paul!!!!  What a bunch of mess!!!  Glad you are feeling a bit better.  Idiots infuriate me and idiots in medicine are a personal affront.  So very sorry for all that you have been through!  Hang in there.  Glad you have been able to retain your sense of humor.  Still with fingers crossed for you to start your trial SOOOOOOOOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                              jbronicki
                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                Oh Paul, I wish you weren't going through all this but I have to say, your sense of humor is beyond precious!  I agree, LA is the land of the beautiful people. I had an interview once there (and we are from near Detroit which is pretty gritty city) and I just couldn't handle the level of perfection (weather, roads, people, shopping malls, etc) I was seeing!  

                                                                                                                I wish you the speediest of recoveries and I hope you are reunited with your fiance ASAP.  The US government is pretty interesting, if they need money from you they are HIGHLY EFFICIENT, but if you need something from them, well……

                                                                                                                jbronicki
                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                  Oh Paul, I wish you weren't going through all this but I have to say, your sense of humor is beyond precious!  I agree, LA is the land of the beautiful people. I had an interview once there (and we are from near Detroit which is pretty gritty city) and I just couldn't handle the level of perfection (weather, roads, people, shopping malls, etc) I was seeing!  

                                                                                                                  I wish you the speediest of recoveries and I hope you are reunited with your fiance ASAP.  The US government is pretty interesting, if they need money from you they are HIGHLY EFFICIENT, but if you need something from them, well……

                                                                                                                  jbronicki
                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                    Oh Paul, I wish you weren't going through all this but I have to say, your sense of humor is beyond precious!  I agree, LA is the land of the beautiful people. I had an interview once there (and we are from near Detroit which is pretty gritty city) and I just couldn't handle the level of perfection (weather, roads, people, shopping malls, etc) I was seeing!  

                                                                                                                    I wish you the speediest of recoveries and I hope you are reunited with your fiance ASAP.  The US government is pretty interesting, if they need money from you they are HIGHLY EFFICIENT, but if you need something from them, well……

                                                                                                                      _Paul_
                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                        Thanks Jackie,

                                                                                                                        I'm originally from around Toronto and went to school in Hamilton which is like a little Detroit so I know gritty. I relate.

                                                                                                                        I got news today that the visa is now on route to her embassy so that is great news. Almost there!

                                                                                                                        – Paul

                                                                                                                        _Paul_
                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                          Thanks Jackie,

                                                                                                                          I'm originally from around Toronto and went to school in Hamilton which is like a little Detroit so I know gritty. I relate.

                                                                                                                          I got news today that the visa is now on route to her embassy so that is great news. Almost there!

                                                                                                                          – Paul

                                                                                                                          _Paul_
                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                            Thanks Jackie,

                                                                                                                            I'm originally from around Toronto and went to school in Hamilton which is like a little Detroit so I know gritty. I relate.

                                                                                                                            I got news today that the visa is now on route to her embassy so that is great news. Almost there!

                                                                                                                            – Paul

                                                                                                                          Mark_DC
                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                            HI Paul – hope you will be out soon. Am just wondering whether you might be the true hotty, and this is distracting the poor LA nurses? Just a thought 🙂

                                                                                                                            Good luck, hope PIlar will make it and you will be on the trial soon.

                                                                                                                              _Paul_
                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                LOL! Only a hottie for gals that like bald dudes with lots of black lumps growing out of their heads. But, hey, maybe it looks like character.

                                                                                                                                – Paul

                                                                                                                                _Paul_
                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                  LOL! Only a hottie for gals that like bald dudes with lots of black lumps growing out of their heads. But, hey, maybe it looks like character.

                                                                                                                                  – Paul

                                                                                                                                  _Paul_
                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                    LOL! Only a hottie for gals that like bald dudes with lots of black lumps growing out of their heads. But, hey, maybe it looks like character.

                                                                                                                                    – Paul

                                                                                                                                  Mark_DC
                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                    HI Paul – hope you will be out soon. Am just wondering whether you might be the true hotty, and this is distracting the poor LA nurses? Just a thought 🙂

                                                                                                                                    Good luck, hope PIlar will make it and you will be on the trial soon.

                                                                                                                                    Mark_DC
                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                      HI Paul – hope you will be out soon. Am just wondering whether you might be the true hotty, and this is distracting the poor LA nurses? Just a thought 🙂

                                                                                                                                      Good luck, hope PIlar will make it and you will be on the trial soon.

                                                                                                                                      maperny
                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                        what a nightmare for you, Paul.  Now that the twits have sorted your pain out, hope you can enjoy beholding the visions in front of you!!!  thinking of you these days and hoping you get going on the trial very soon

                                                                                                                                        maria

                                                                                                                                          _Paul_
                                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                                            Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                            I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                            So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                            I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                            – Paul

                                                                                                                                            _Paul_
                                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                                              Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                              I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                              So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                              I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                              – Paul

                                                                                                                                              _Paul_
                                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                                Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                                I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                                So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                                I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                                – Paul

                                                                                                                                                _Paul_
                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                  Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                                  I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                                  So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                                  I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                                  – Paul

                                                                                                                                                  _Paul_
                                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                                    Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                                    I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                                    So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                                    I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                                    – Paul

                                                                                                                                                    _Paul_
                                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                                      Thanks Maria,

                                                                                                                                                      I just found out that the trial will be delayed at least one more week. It turns out I am anemic, and require 2 units of blood and the monitoring that goes along with that. Plus the Angeles Clinic is so busy, they have 20 new patients they have to consent this week. Dr. Hamid wants me to not only be healthy enough to meet the inclusion criteria,  but to remain in the trial. He wants to do it all the right way which I agree with.

                                                                                                                                                      So hopefully I will be discharged tomorrow or maybe even Monday. Then fly back with a friend to Seattle  (I have the barfing pretty much under control now). Then fly back to LA in a week for the consent. Then return a week later to start the treatment. In the meantime, I hope the TIL I just had can keep the mel at bay long enough, especially the spine and brain mets.

                                                                                                                                                      I'm really looking forward to getting back to my own bed. The icing on the cake will be the appearance of my sweetie Pilar. Juan is so lucky to have you.

                                                                                                                                                      – Paul

                                                                                                                                                      Bubbles
                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                        Jeeze, Paulster!!!  Hang in there!  Glad you will get to spend time with Pilar!!!  But fingers and toes remain crossed that your treatment starts soooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                                                                        Bubbles
                                                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                                                          Jeeze, Paulster!!!  Hang in there!  Glad you will get to spend time with Pilar!!!  But fingers and toes remain crossed that your treatment starts soooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                                                                          Bubbles
                                                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                                                            Jeeze, Paulster!!!  Hang in there!  Glad you will get to spend time with Pilar!!!  But fingers and toes remain crossed that your treatment starts soooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  love, c

                                                                                                                                                            maperny
                                                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                                                              Good luck with getting home quick and to having Pilar with you quickly.  I bet you feel loads better after the blood infusion.  Dr Hamid sounds spot on to me.

                                                                                                                                                              Maria

                                                                                                                                                              maperny
                                                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                                                Good luck with getting home quick and to having Pilar with you quickly.  I bet you feel loads better after the blood infusion.  Dr Hamid sounds spot on to me.

                                                                                                                                                                Maria

                                                                                                                                                                maperny
                                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                                  Good luck with getting home quick and to having Pilar with you quickly.  I bet you feel loads better after the blood infusion.  Dr Hamid sounds spot on to me.

                                                                                                                                                                  Maria

                                                                                                                                                                  jenny22
                                                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                                                    Paul- happy to see you're out of ICU….and have gotten some blood….hoping you afe soon discharged and on your way home for bit, and then BACK to LA and can start the trial.

                                                                                                                                                                    Sending good thoughts and hope to get things moving along…

                                                                                                                                                                    Best to you and Pilar!!!

                                                                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                                                    jenny

                                                                                                                                                                    jenny22
                                                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                                                      Paul- happy to see you're out of ICU….and have gotten some blood….hoping you afe soon discharged and on your way home for bit, and then BACK to LA and can start the trial.

                                                                                                                                                                      Sending good thoughts and hope to get things moving along…

                                                                                                                                                                      Best to you and Pilar!!!

                                                                                                                                                                       

                                                                                                                                                                      jenny

                                                                                                                                                                      jenny22
                                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                                        Paul- happy to see you're out of ICU….and have gotten some blood….hoping you afe soon discharged and on your way home for bit, and then BACK to LA and can start the trial.

                                                                                                                                                                        Sending good thoughts and hope to get things moving along…

                                                                                                                                                                        Best to you and Pilar!!!

                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                                        jenny

                                                                                                                                                                      maperny
                                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                                        what a nightmare for you, Paul.  Now that the twits have sorted your pain out, hope you can enjoy beholding the visions in front of you!!!  thinking of you these days and hoping you get going on the trial very soon

                                                                                                                                                                        maria

                                                                                                                                                                        maperny
                                                                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                                                                          what a nightmare for you, Paul.  Now that the twits have sorted your pain out, hope you can enjoy beholding the visions in front of you!!!  thinking of you these days and hoping you get going on the trial very soon

                                                                                                                                                                          maria

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