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Just Diagnosed with Stage IV

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    ImMark
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      Hi all,

      I have been reading a few posts and thought I would share my own story.

      I am a 35yr old male from Perth, Western Australia. I was recently diagnosed with Stage IV melanoma.

      It started almost 2 months ago when I discovered a lump under my right armpit. After ultrasounds and a biopsy I was told I had metastic melanoma. The lump was an enlarged lymph node.

      I then went to have a PET scan which confirmed I have a met on my left thigh. My biopsy also confirmed that I am BRAF positive.

      This week I start my first treatment of ipilimumab and nivolumab. I have been placed on a clinical trial at Sir Charles Gairdner hospital. I have read some promising results from this trial, but I am not getting ahead fo myself.

      I will try and keep this updated on a regular basis for anyone who might be going through the same thing. 

      I try not to let my thoughts wander into a negative space, but I guess in situations like this it cant be helped.

      Good luck to everyone else out there going through the same thing.

       

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        Cathy M
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          Thank you for sharing your story. Look forward to hearing more from your experience (positive or negative). Sharing is learning and we can all use an extra dose of that against this disease…best wishes as you begin your battle!!
          Cathy M
          Participant
            Thank you for sharing your story. Look forward to hearing more from your experience (positive or negative). Sharing is learning and we can all use an extra dose of that against this disease…best wishes as you begin your battle!!
            Cathy M
            Participant
              Thank you for sharing your story. Look forward to hearing more from your experience (positive or negative). Sharing is learning and we can all use an extra dose of that against this disease…best wishes as you begin your battle!!
              MoiraM
              Participant

                All the best. I was treated with Ipi and my recommendation is to keep your team informed about your symptoms but also keep your own diary, so that you can answer questions like "How many days has that benn happening?".

                MoiraM
                Participant

                  All the best. I was treated with Ipi and my recommendation is to keep your team informed about your symptoms but also keep your own diary, so that you can answer questions like "How many days has that benn happening?".

                  MoiraM
                  Participant

                    All the best. I was treated with Ipi and my recommendation is to keep your team informed about your symptoms but also keep your own diary, so that you can answer questions like "How many days has that benn happening?".

                    DZnDef
                    Participant

                      Hello FromPerth!  So sorry you had to join us here but it's a really good group of people.  I have not tried the treatments you are on but many here have and I hope they will share their experiences with you.  As I am sure you are aware, all is not lost.  Many folks on this message board have been living with a Stage IV diagnosis for years.  Best of luck to you!

                      DZnDef
                      Participant

                        Hello FromPerth!  So sorry you had to join us here but it's a really good group of people.  I have not tried the treatments you are on but many here have and I hope they will share their experiences with you.  As I am sure you are aware, all is not lost.  Many folks on this message board have been living with a Stage IV diagnosis for years.  Best of luck to you!

                        DZnDef
                        Participant

                          Hello FromPerth!  So sorry you had to join us here but it's a really good group of people.  I have not tried the treatments you are on but many here have and I hope they will share their experiences with you.  As I am sure you are aware, all is not lost.  Many folks on this message board have been living with a Stage IV diagnosis for years.  Best of luck to you!

                          stars
                          Participant

                            Sorry you find yourself here. I think this mob are fairly active and probably a great support, if you need someone locally:

                            http://melanomawa.org.au/

                            I like your attitude and hope the combo treatment works its magic for you. 

                            stars
                            Participant

                              Sorry you find yourself here. I think this mob are fairly active and probably a great support, if you need someone locally:

                              http://melanomawa.org.au/

                              I like your attitude and hope the combo treatment works its magic for you. 

                              stars
                              Participant

                                Sorry you find yourself here. I think this mob are fairly active and probably a great support, if you need someone locally:

                                http://melanomawa.org.au/

                                I like your attitude and hope the combo treatment works its magic for you. 

                                Patina
                                Participant

                                  Hi FromPerth,

                                  You found a great resource and group of people. Ask us anything and share what is going on with us. We can help.

                                  My advice. Make sure you get a brain MRI and get a second opinion even after you start treatment if you have any concerns. It's very helpful.

                                  Also, have a game plan for colitis, watch out for thrush (mouth sores) and find out the best way to communicate with your doctor. We found email very helpful. Get and keep a copy of all of your records. They really come in handy when you need them.  And take a tape recorder if you need it to appointments and make sure you have a good advocate. If I wasn't helping my Mom she wouldn't have gotten what she needed. She always likes to minimizes what is going on and if I wasn't as stubborn as her and my Dad put together we would have been in big trouble. Oh, and be honest about what is going on. It can save you a lot of trouble down the road.

                                  My Mom was diagnosed at stage IV in November of 2013. We found out 3 weeks later she also have 3 brain mets they missed! Even after that scare and another with a radiation oncologist and neuro-oncologist my Mom has had excellent results with ipi and gamma knife and later keytruda and gamma knife. She's had no long term effects that affect her life and I think she will end up NED this year which is huge for someone who had 28 brain tumors, 6 tumors in her trunk, 1 on her neck and 18 on her scalp. 

                                  Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

                                   

                                  Patina
                                  Participant

                                    Hi FromPerth,

                                    You found a great resource and group of people. Ask us anything and share what is going on with us. We can help.

                                    My advice. Make sure you get a brain MRI and get a second opinion even after you start treatment if you have any concerns. It's very helpful.

                                    Also, have a game plan for colitis, watch out for thrush (mouth sores) and find out the best way to communicate with your doctor. We found email very helpful. Get and keep a copy of all of your records. They really come in handy when you need them.  And take a tape recorder if you need it to appointments and make sure you have a good advocate. If I wasn't helping my Mom she wouldn't have gotten what she needed. She always likes to minimizes what is going on and if I wasn't as stubborn as her and my Dad put together we would have been in big trouble. Oh, and be honest about what is going on. It can save you a lot of trouble down the road.

                                    My Mom was diagnosed at stage IV in November of 2013. We found out 3 weeks later she also have 3 brain mets they missed! Even after that scare and another with a radiation oncologist and neuro-oncologist my Mom has had excellent results with ipi and gamma knife and later keytruda and gamma knife. She's had no long term effects that affect her life and I think she will end up NED this year which is huge for someone who had 28 brain tumors, 6 tumors in her trunk, 1 on her neck and 18 on her scalp. 

                                    Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

                                     

                                    Patina
                                    Participant

                                      Hi FromPerth,

                                      You found a great resource and group of people. Ask us anything and share what is going on with us. We can help.

                                      My advice. Make sure you get a brain MRI and get a second opinion even after you start treatment if you have any concerns. It's very helpful.

                                      Also, have a game plan for colitis, watch out for thrush (mouth sores) and find out the best way to communicate with your doctor. We found email very helpful. Get and keep a copy of all of your records. They really come in handy when you need them.  And take a tape recorder if you need it to appointments and make sure you have a good advocate. If I wasn't helping my Mom she wouldn't have gotten what she needed. She always likes to minimizes what is going on and if I wasn't as stubborn as her and my Dad put together we would have been in big trouble. Oh, and be honest about what is going on. It can save you a lot of trouble down the road.

                                      My Mom was diagnosed at stage IV in November of 2013. We found out 3 weeks later she also have 3 brain mets they missed! Even after that scare and another with a radiation oncologist and neuro-oncologist my Mom has had excellent results with ipi and gamma knife and later keytruda and gamma knife. She's had no long term effects that affect her life and I think she will end up NED this year which is huge for someone who had 28 brain tumors, 6 tumors in her trunk, 1 on her neck and 18 on her scalp. 

                                      Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

                                       

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