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    Neeq79
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      Hello Everyone,

      I hope you don't mind me posting here.  I have not been diagnosed with Melanoma, instead I am waiting to receive initial results. 

      Hello Everyone,

      I hope you don't mind me posting here.  I have not been diagnosed with Melanoma, instead I am waiting to receive initial results. 

      I have dark blond hair, blue eyes, and many freckles.  I was unfortunately one of those teens and early 20 somethings who thought looking better meant having a tan.  I never went to a tanning bed but spent many days out in the sun with little to no sunscreen.  I am now 32 and definitely have put those days behind me, what was I thinking?  I knew you could get skin cancer from sun exposure so I have always been good at checking my face, arms, and torso.  I knew I had freckles and moles on my back, but, my back was rarely sunburned (I always hated a burnt back so it was not often exposed). 

      I had a physical last month and asked about my back, my doctor sent me to a dermatologist.  I went  and unfortunately, I had three irregular moles that were removed by punch biopsy last Thursday.  I asked her if they came back positive what it would be, and she stated Melanoma.  As I sit her with stitches and waiting for results, I wanted to do research on what exactly Melanoma is.

      I am so glad I found this website and I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your stories. Thank you so much for posting something so personal.  I feel like my eyes have finally been opened to what I took, in a sense, casually.  I am praying nothing comes back positive for Melanoma, however, I know I will need yearly checkups which I will always be on top of. I also want to get the word out to everyone that Melanoma is something you may not realize you have until it is too late.  It goes way beyond sun exposure, as I'm an example, the parts with very little sun exposure are the places with the irregular moles I need to monitor.  I wish our culture was one of health, true health, not the thinking that a tan appearance equals health.  I wish Melanoma awareness and education was as easy to find as a tanning salon is. 

      I am very nervous about my results, but no matter what they are, my attitude and outlook have definitely changed.  We're blessed with one body and one life, it's up to us to take care of it the best we can and to not take it for granted.  

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        Camp Host
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          Hang on in there …. the waiting can be horrible KEEP strong positive thoughts !! 

          Know by having the moles checked was the BEST first step..

          Camp Host
          Participant

            Hang on in there …. the waiting can be horrible KEEP strong positive thoughts !! 

            Know by having the moles checked was the BEST first step..

              Neeq79
              Participant

                Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.  
                The doctor called tonight with my results, and I missed the call!  My stomach is in knots and I left a message for them to call me first thing in the morning. 
                I pray for a negative result,, but that doesn't mean I can be lax again.  Because of having dysplastic nuvi (sp?), I am middle of the road for Melanoma.  I've let my friends know as well that a simple check by your doctor can save your life.
                I just hope I can get somewhat of a good night's sleep, and we'll see what tomorrow brings.

                Neeq79
                Participant

                  Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.  
                  The doctor called tonight with my results, and I missed the call!  My stomach is in knots and I left a message for them to call me first thing in the morning. 
                  I pray for a negative result,, but that doesn't mean I can be lax again.  Because of having dysplastic nuvi (sp?), I am middle of the road for Melanoma.  I've let my friends know as well that a simple check by your doctor can save your life.
                  I just hope I can get somewhat of a good night's sleep, and we'll see what tomorrow brings.

                  Camp Host
                  Participant

                    Sorry you missed your call  .. blush

                    Camp Host
                    Participant

                      Sorry you missed your call  .. blush

                      Camp Host
                      Participant

                        Sorry you missed your call  .. blush

                        Neeq79
                        Participant

                          Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.  
                          The doctor called tonight with my results, and I missed the call!  My stomach is in knots and I left a message for them to call me first thing in the morning. 
                          I pray for a negative result,, but that doesn't mean I can be lax again.  Because of having dysplastic nuvi (sp?), I am middle of the road for Melanoma.  I've let my friends know as well that a simple check by your doctor can save your life.
                          I just hope I can get somewhat of a good night's sleep, and we'll see what tomorrow brings.

                        Camp Host
                        Participant

                          Hang on in there …. the waiting can be horrible KEEP strong positive thoughts !! 

                          Know by having the moles checked was the BEST first step..

                          CLPrice31
                          Participant

                            Best wishes for you! I hope you take this experience and teach others. I joined Hotel Melanoma at age 23–just 11 months ago. You can follow my story on my blog listed below. I, too, thought that everyone looked prettier with a tan. Oh, now I have regret…..Use this experience to educate, educate, educate. Best wishes to you!

                            CLPrice31
                            Participant

                              Best wishes for you! I hope you take this experience and teach others. I joined Hotel Melanoma at age 23–just 11 months ago. You can follow my story on my blog listed below. I, too, thought that everyone looked prettier with a tan. Oh, now I have regret…..Use this experience to educate, educate, educate. Best wishes to you!

                              CLPrice31
                              Participant

                                Best wishes for you! I hope you take this experience and teach others. I joined Hotel Melanoma at age 23–just 11 months ago. You can follow my story on my blog listed below. I, too, thought that everyone looked prettier with a tan. Oh, now I have regret…..Use this experience to educate, educate, educate. Best wishes to you!

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