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Keepingyourchinup

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      Keepingyourchinup
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        Hi! 

         

        I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

         

        Kathy 

        Keepingyourchinup
        Participant

          Hi! 

           

          I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

           

          Kathy 

          Keepingyourchinup
          Participant

            Hi! 

             

            I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

             

            Kathy 

            Keepingyourchinup
            Participant

              Hi Bill, 

              Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

              I wish you all the best! 

               

              Kathy

              Keepingyourchinup
              Participant

                Hi Bill, 

                Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

                I wish you all the best! 

                 

                Kathy

                Keepingyourchinup
                Participant

                  Hi Bill, 

                  Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

                  I wish you all the best! 

                   

                  Kathy

                  Keepingyourchinup
                  Participant

                    Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

                     

                    Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

                     

                    have a great weekend everyone! 

                    Kathy

                     

                    Keepingyourchinup
                    Participant

                      Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

                       

                      Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

                       

                      have a great weekend everyone! 

                      Kathy

                       

                      Keepingyourchinup
                      Participant

                        Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

                         

                        Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

                         

                        have a great weekend everyone! 

                        Kathy

                         

                        Keepingyourchinup
                        Participant

                          Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

                          Kathy 

                          Keepingyourchinup
                          Participant

                            Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

                            Kathy 

                            Keepingyourchinup
                            Participant

                              Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

                              Kathy 

                              Keepingyourchinup
                              Participant

                                Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

                                 

                                Kathy 

                                Keepingyourchinup
                                Participant

                                  Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

                                   

                                  Kathy 

                                  Keepingyourchinup
                                  Participant

                                    Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

                                     

                                    Kathy 

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