Melissa M
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Melissa M

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      • August 10, 2018 at 8:13 pm
      Melissa M
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        Wishing you peace in the middle of this storm we call cancer. I've been right where you are, and while cancer will always be an anxious thought in your mind, it lessens over time. Take it one day (or one moment) at a time. 

        • November 7, 2017 at 7:21 pm
        Melissa M
        Participant

          I am not familiar with that kind of biopsy personally, but I am sure any competent surgeon could do it. It might be worth switching just so you can start the process sooner and start to hopefully reduce your anxiety. Way to advocate for your care! Best wishes!

          • November 7, 2017 at 6:57 pm
          Melissa M
          Participant

            The waiting is the worst, God knows I've been there too. Now I'm waiting for 2 second site biopsy results from my first full body check post surgery. All I can say is lean on us, and anyone else who you can. Stay busy, try to stay positive. Sending you positive energy!

            • November 7, 2017 at 6:53 pm
            Melissa M
            Participant

              Welcome friend, and I'm sorry that you are joining our fray. Please try to be kind to yourself, even if you enjoyed the sun it doesn't mean you "deserve" cancer. I too tanned way too much (youth makes us feel invincible, doesn't it?!!!) Now that we know better, we can do better. You are taking care of yourself now and we're all here to support you. Just because someone drives a car doesn't mean they will be in an accident right? Similar principle here. Sending you well wishes and kindness 🙂

              • November 7, 2017 at 6:33 pm
              Melissa M
              Participant

                Don't be too hard on yourself, it's overwhelming enough dealing with Melanoma and all the BS that we have to do to care for ourselves. I'm sure your brain was busy when you forgot your Ativan! Kuddos for getting through it!

                • November 6, 2017 at 1:22 am
                Melissa M
                Participant
                  Thank you for your words or support Jennifer, thats exactly how I’m feeling right now. I wrapped Christmas gifts and spent some time with my best friend last night, focusing on things I love helps. I’ve also been home with my kids all weekend, which is a caling factor (most of the time) and I’m also not sharing my anxiety with them until/if I need to. The original conversations about cancer and surgery were hard enough. Thank you for your support, It means so much ❤
                  • November 6, 2017 at 1:17 am
                  Melissa M
                  Participant
                    Thanks for sharing your experience, it comforts me to hear that odds are this is ok. This is my first full body check post melamona removal surgery, so I’m learning about odds and what to expect. I’m feeling all of the great support amd gaining strength. Thank you for your support! Wishing you wellness!
                    • November 6, 2017 at 1:13 am
                    Melissa M
                    Participant
                      Im here for you friend! Wishing you health and good results. You’re wise to be taking care of your body amd being aware. Sending love and well wishes from the US! You’re not alone ❤
                      • November 4, 2017 at 5:27 pm
                      Melissa M
                      Participant
                        I like those odds! Thank you!
                        • November 4, 2017 at 4:35 pm
                        Melissa M
                        Participant
                          Thank uou so much for this, its exactly what I didn’t know I needed. Thst article is amazing and makes a lot of sense. I struggle with feeling both strong and accepting, and then feeling the unknown and out of control. When I’m in a good centered place, I realize that nothing ever really is in ones control and I can accept that. No matter what, I know I’m strong amd I can get there again, I just have to feel the feelings. Your words and support mean so much, especially from this community who has shared a journey. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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