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        Lilo909, you must have ESP! My next concern was what substance to use to massage the area. Yes, I am a firm believer in breaking up the scar tissue because I had shoulder surgery 2 inches away from my new incision and didn't know any better at that time. I will continue to wear long sleeves, massage and keep the faith.  I feel better able to cope knowing what to do and what to expect. Thanks for your reply.

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          Lilo909, you must have ESP! My next concern was what substance to use to massage the area. Yes, I am a firm believer in breaking up the scar tissue because I had shoulder surgery 2 inches away from my new incision and didn't know any better at that time. I will continue to wear long sleeves, massage and keep the faith.  I feel better able to cope knowing what to do and what to expect. Thanks for your reply.

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            Lilo909, you must have ESP! My next concern was what substance to use to massage the area. Yes, I am a firm believer in breaking up the scar tissue because I had shoulder surgery 2 inches away from my new incision and didn't know any better at that time. I will continue to wear long sleeves, massage and keep the faith.  I feel better able to cope knowing what to do and what to expect. Thanks for your reply.

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              Kim, thank you truly for the wonderful reply and specific information.  I am totally relieved and it makes a lot of sense. I did research closures,  but only briefly. This puts it perspective. I will be following your advice. Many thanks again.

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                Kim, thank you truly for the wonderful reply and specific information.  I am totally relieved and it makes a lot of sense. I did research closures,  but only briefly. This puts it perspective. I will be following your advice. Many thanks again.

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                  Kim, thank you truly for the wonderful reply and specific information.  I am totally relieved and it makes a lot of sense. I did research closures,  but only briefly. This puts it perspective. I will be following your advice. Many thanks again.

                  Resilient4Life
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                    Hi Twistermom3,

                    I like your comment, "I'm just not going to care." That opened up my options! My incision is without seeping blood after 2 days and the pain level is more manageable than I expected. Decided not to get into opiates, since I have enough trouble without them. Not itchy, but feeling very squuezed and tight. Two places are raised with lumpy swelling, but that's OK. Having a fresh site on your back has to be tough, comfort wise. You sound like you've had a pretty speedy progression from discovery to surgery, so it will take some time to process. Thanks for sharing your experience.

                    Resilient4Life
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                      Hi Twistermom3,

                      I like your comment, "I'm just not going to care." That opened up my options! My incision is without seeping blood after 2 days and the pain level is more manageable than I expected. Decided not to get into opiates, since I have enough trouble without them. Not itchy, but feeling very squuezed and tight. Two places are raised with lumpy swelling, but that's OK. Having a fresh site on your back has to be tough, comfort wise. You sound like you've had a pretty speedy progression from discovery to surgery, so it will take some time to process. Thanks for sharing your experience.

                      Resilient4Life
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                        Hi Twistermom3,

                        I like your comment, "I'm just not going to care." That opened up my options! My incision is without seeping blood after 2 days and the pain level is more manageable than I expected. Decided not to get into opiates, since I have enough trouble without them. Not itchy, but feeling very squuezed and tight. Two places are raised with lumpy swelling, but that's OK. Having a fresh site on your back has to be tough, comfort wise. You sound like you've had a pretty speedy progression from discovery to surgery, so it will take some time to process. Thanks for sharing your experience.

                        Resilient4Life
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                          Kacey79,

                          Thanks for your reply. It had to be great news to be "downgraded!"  It's hard to tell sometimes where to place our trust. Congratulations on a great outcome; no SNB, clear margins. I've learned a lot from everyone here. I never heard of Total Body Photography, but see immediately how it could be extremely useful. It sounds like you have a very concerned and compassionate dermatologist.  I wish you all the best for your future checks.

                          Resilient4Life
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                            Kacey79,

                            Thanks for your reply. It had to be great news to be "downgraded!"  It's hard to tell sometimes where to place our trust. Congratulations on a great outcome; no SNB, clear margins. I've learned a lot from everyone here. I never heard of Total Body Photography, but see immediately how it could be extremely useful. It sounds like you have a very concerned and compassionate dermatologist.  I wish you all the best for your future checks.

                            Resilient4Life
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                              Kacey79,

                              Thanks for your reply. It had to be great news to be "downgraded!"  It's hard to tell sometimes where to place our trust. Congratulations on a great outcome; no SNB, clear margins. I've learned a lot from everyone here. I never heard of Total Body Photography, but see immediately how it could be extremely useful. It sounds like you have a very concerned and compassionate dermatologist.  I wish you all the best for your future checks.

                              Resilient4Life
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                                Thank you Janner, your points were what I was looking for. Especially the risk of recurrence. Very difficult for me to "just" be vigilant without being more.

                                Resilient4Life
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                                  Thank you Janner, your points were what I was looking for. Especially the risk of recurrence. Very difficult for me to "just" be vigilant without being more.

                                  Resilient4Life
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                                    Thank you Janner, your points were what I was looking for. Especially the risk of recurrence. Very difficult for me to "just" be vigilant without being more.

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